Marymount International School May 28-31, 2012

Back in January there was a study abroad orientation meeting. The woman leading this meeting told us our journey would be a roller coaster; we’d experience ups and downs. The third week was definitely my slump week. It started off with one of my students being diagnosed with scarlet fever. Because it is uncommon in the United States, I wasn’t aware of the symptoms, contagion, or recovery process. Needless to say, my week started off in a funk.  

By the third week, my students had warmed up to me. As much as I loved this, it also meant some had gotten too comfortable with me and chose not to listen to me. During the third week, I was forced to be sterner with them than I had in the past. Raising my voice and getting angry with the children is not how I handle situations. I believe it escalates the situation rather than controls it. This week gave me the opportunity to balance the different aspects of a teacher.

Specials was always a hit or miss with the kids. PE is supposed to be a fun, energy releasing time for the students. Unfortunately, the PE teacher sets up obstacle courses and has the students complete it one by one, creating more pent up energy in the students. The students sit on the bench more than they are participating. In addition to this, the PE teacher made the two boys who need exercise the most sit out for not listening. Gianandrea started crying and telling me something in Italian. I take the kids to PE by myself and the PE teacher speaks very little English. I kept asking for the two boys to join back in, but the teacher didn’t understand. I sat there thinking about the more productive ways I would have handled the situation. I took more control during music this week, and it resulted in a much better time than the previous week. The kids listened to me during music and I was not afraid to manage their behavior in front of another teacher.

My proud teacher moment of the week occurred with the one little boy who speaks little to no English. I was leading an activity and the first group understood very well and completed it quickly. The second group, which had both students who cannot speak English, was a little more difficult. The little boy, Gianandrea, got extremely frustrated, crumbled up his paper, threw markers on the floor, and when I went over to him he had the meanest facial expression on. He shouted something at me in Italian, and I had to go ask Melinda to translate. He said, “I’m mad at you because you didn’t look at my work when I finished.” I had to have Melinda tell him in Italian that when he speaks out in Italian I do not understand. We eventually worked it out and he gave me a big hug. The next day, Gianandrea was ten times better. He finished his math so quickly, which never happens, and did it perfectly. And, my favorite part, he spoke one full sentence to me in English! It put the biggest smile on my face.  



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